from Susan David, Ph.D.
Elizabeth Gilbert says this of
grief and love: "Grief does not
obey your plans or your
wishes. Grief will do whatever
it wants to you, whenever it
wants to. In that regard, grief
has a lot in common with
love." While there is no magic
formula for healing from grief,
our capacity to carry our grief
will grow and change. But all
that we've experienced
remains a part of us forever.
In fact, we may find that it
becomes part of our
super-power -- a well of
empathy that we can draw on
as we work to support those
around us, and a source of
strenth as we work to build a
more just world -- and we
know that the only cure for
love is more of it.